Sunday Inspiration: Sexy Men?
Of course, they could have asked us, and we could have told them.
Now all they have to do is read the latest study revealing that what women find most sexy about a man is … kindness.
Yes, good looks do help, but when put side by side, kindness, compassion, and altruism are the clear winners in sexiness.
Any surprises here? I don’t think so. Though self-absorbed “bad boys” might be a one-night-stand fantasy for some women, when looking for a long-term loving relationship, we want men who are conscious of the world outside of themselves and sensitive to the struggle of others and willing to reach out and help those who them.
These are the sexy men I like to read about and write about: men who believe in the words of Aesop that, “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.”
Who is the sexiest man in literature? Ask yourself why.
To me the sexiest man in History, if we’re talking about kindness, is Jesus, though I have to say he holds many more attributes. Sure, we can’t expect every man to be like Him, but it wouldn’t hurt to try to follow His teachings.
I liked your answer, Nancy…I think goodness goes a long way and I find the actors and performers I am drawn to are those who are good family men, not to say I can’t admire Cary Grant types too but in a different way.