Sunday Inspiration: What’s important?

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To start the new year, here’s some past inspiration worth repeating. Enjoy.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’

The professor then produced two beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..

‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.

‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.

Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.

Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of beers with a friend.

Now what has been important and meaningful to you in 2022, and what would you like to be important and meaningful to you in 2023?

Happy New Year friends and raise a glass high for a year of love and joy!


  1. DELORES on January 1, 2023 at 9:06 am

    What a wonderful way of looking at life! A lot to think about as we start another new year—and have to be thankful we are here to do so!

  2. Coelle J Baskel on January 1, 2023 at 9:16 am

    Love the ‘advice’ and it’s worth reminding us all… Happy New Year!

  3. Joan Leopold on January 1, 2023 at 9:49 am

    Thank you, Emilie. That says it all. Happy New Year to you and your family.

  4. Linda P on January 1, 2023 at 10:40 am

    Family, health, quilting and enjoying the outdoors. Thanks Emilie, I hope you are recovering well.

    • Terry Guerra on January 2, 2023 at 8:37 am

      I love this! 🧡 I treasure the time I spend with my mother, who will be 93 on January 19. She is my best friend. I am so fortunate!
      May 2023 bring happiness to us all!

  5. Pat on January 1, 2023 at 11:59 am

    That is such a wonderful lesson. And truer words were never spoken. Thank you. Happiest wishes for 2023 to us all.

  6. Nancy Lepri on January 1, 2023 at 9:11 pm

    Happy New Year!!!

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