Snowflakes That Stay On My Nose and Eyelashes. . . Really?

Right about now, many of you are dreaming about spring.  What a winter.  Blizzards, mudslides, floods.  And it’s still only January. But let’s not talk about climate change.  In fact it could be dangerous for me to mention.  After all the Attorney General of my own fair state, a global warming skeptic, is currently trying to…

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Saying Ahhh. . . Dealing With Stress in Our Lives

I’ve begun a new tradition.  When I wake up in the morning, I turn on the light and read for a little while.  It’s a much more civilized way to face the day than to jump out of bed running, which was my old tradition.  Lying in bed a few extra minutes has had a welcome…

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Jumping Off the Merry-Go-Round

There I was reading Everyday Foods magazine while my granddaughter chattered beside me.  “I get this at home,” I told my son-in-law, “but I haven’t had time to read it in a year.”  There was a silence, then he said, “You know, something’s wrong with that, Mom.” Indeed there is. 

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The Places We Leave Behind

I’ve been lucky, although for a long time I didn’t notice.  While I am clearly a small town/rooted for generations/never need to move kind of woman, I have only lived in one small town, where we had no family ties.  We moved on after six years.  I am married to a minister, and moving comes…

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They Don’t Call ‘Em “Dead”lines For Nothing

I spent yesterday searching for hidden objects.  What time I didn’t spend with nose to ground–a skill I learned from the local beagle–I spent watching half the appliances in my house fall apart.  Ah, some people look for signs of changing seasons, colored leaves gently drifting to the ground, that first tracing of frost on…

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“I Was Adorable”–Eddie Fisher and The Men We Love

Eddie Fisher died this week, and now, thanks to this morning’s excellent Washington Post obituary, the man and his “impact” are on my mind. I’m a novelist, after all, and understanding the human heart is my job, maybe even my responsibility. I’m just old enough to remember Eddie Fisher as someone other than the father of Carrie, the…

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Are You Well Connected, or a Slave to Technology?

Our TiVo died.  Not without fanfare, and certainly not without warning.  For the past four months, in the  most interesting part of any program, the picture was nearly guaranteed to break up, the progress of the story halted as we rooted for TiVo to heal itself and continue until we discovered who had killed whom. …

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Laying the Groundwork and Planting the Seeds

Back in late June I blogged about all the wonderful things I did that month instead of writing.  This was my first stint at our funky old cottage in Chautauqua, New York, and between plumbers and carpenters, cleaning and weeding out, and yes, meeting and enjoying the company of neighbors, I ended up with far…

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